The best friends deserve the best hen
parties, and we hope that there's only going to be one wedding, so that means
only one chance to get the party right. As best friend and probably head
bridesmaid or maid of honour, it's your duty to plan the best event possible,
even if you have a family, a job and things of your own to worry about. Here
are the steps you can take to make sure your best friend gets the best hen
party ever.
Don't leave it
until the last minute
You'll keep putting it off and putting
it off, prioritising other things (which in fairness are probably more
important than a party anyway), and eventually it will be too late to make any
proper arrangements and you'll be left feeling bad about it for the rest of
time. You don't want the situation to end up like that, so start planning as
soon as you hear about the engagement. Well, maybe not that soon, but
once the date is set, you can definitely start planning and organizing a few
initial things.
Make a list of
all the things she likes
If she's your best friend, you're going
to have a pretty good idea of what she likes and what she really doesn't like.
Planning for her and the guests to do one of the worst things she could
possibly think of, for example, strippers if she hates strippers, is a sure way
to make her question your friendship and how long you've known each other.
Sure, she'll probably forgive you eventually, but deep down she'll be wondering
if you've ever been listening during conversations. If she likes relaxing and
de-stressing, plan a hen night that she can really use to relax. Hens massage Gold
Coast package deals are available, and often come with a variety of
pamper options to add on.
Keep it a
surprise
She'll definitely suspect at some
point, and you should probably tell her some of the details, such as when it's
being held and the fact that she is actually having a hen party.
However, if you want to keep all of the details, or just some of the details, a
secret from her, this can add the element of mystery and make everything all
the more exciting. If she hates surprises, however, don't bother!
Find out whom to
invite
You
can straight up ask your best friend who she wants you to invite to the hen
night, and she might even want to invite them herself. If you're organizing it
as a surprise, you can normally find out who she would probably like at her
hen night by going through her social media profiles, such as Facebook and
Instagram, and seeing who she interacts with the most on there. Be very
careful, though, since not everybody will be on social media, so you may have
to enlist the help of her family members for this one.
